For the most part, I really don’t want to know what negative comments are being said about me. Although I am curious (at times) what sort of juicy gossip might be floating (only to see if it is accurate).

It sounds to me like you are hoping to some “psychoanalyzing” - yourself!

Perhaps you will have better luck if you post this same (personal) question in the “Psychology” section. There are likely to be more people there familiar with psychoanalysis (which is Freud’s baby).

“Snobby” ??? You don’t miss an opportunity to incorporate “Mensa” into the text you post. You mean to suggest this ain’t ’snobby’?

EDIT:
Why don’t you just post what I sent to you? It’s conspicuous by it’s absence; you are well aware that ‘ideology’ had nothing to do with anything. If it were really as awful as you are making out I would have no doubt you would ‘publish’ it immediately.

As for the rest of it: stop projecting onto me. Here is the proof that that is PRECISELY what you are doing. Yesterday we both answered a question posted by Waswisgirl. I posted before you:

YOU:” LOL… I see Gray *still* won’t admit that mothering of infants matters in terms of psychological health. I suppose we’ll agree to disagree, then.”

ME: “Jupiter, get a grip:?Nowhere did I say mothering has no effect! …Kindly refrain from stalking me, ok Jupiter? That’s what you’re doing when in your own answer, you single out other participants by name and attatch your own running commentary”

See? You are projecting your own behavior - onto ME.

Now, I see you still refuse to identify what in my email has made you so histrionic. You refuse to post it, so I WILL. I just found it on a word document I neglected to delete:

“‘I think it is over-compensation on her part.I remember learning in Pysch 101 that Autism was a result of poor Mothering. (A theory since debunked) Maybe she is so afraid of that being true of her Hubby and child that she has tried to be Uber Mom. C.’‘Agreed.?There’s an excellent feminist book called “Perfect Madness” about the state of parenting today and how it’s become a competitive sport.C’‘I agree w/ C about the over-compensation thing. I remember when Jupiter first ?started posting I did really like her repsonses they were always well thought out and backed up by research, but now she attacks those in oppostion to her views in a very ?passive aggressive way. I also believe no matter how one may contest about the joy of being a SAHM that it does make people a little “crazy” and changes the way in which they communicate with other adults; Jupiter is a good example of this. I could just be speaking from my own experience with it though, but I have no problems with admitting that I went a little batty.I also read “Perfect Madness” and am living it here in NYC everyday. I think that Jupiter represents the kind of mentality that perpetuates the “mommy wars” and that is a real ?bummer, maybe I am naive but I would like women/parents to be on the same side when it comes to motherhood/parentho od (whether we have careers or not) because parenting in the 21century is hard.E’‘E: I think you’re absolutely right on all points regarding stay-at-home mothering. I’m not sure why women are terrified to even _admit_ that being stuck at home with kids all day takes a toll on one’s mental health. It’s as though we’re afraid that to say it will mean we don’t unconditionally love our babies anymore, which is of course baloney. Mothers are only human, and many kids realize this as they grow. (The ones who don’t are probably the ones more likely to turn into whiney, demanding, entitled, self-righteous brats.)’”

Shocking, isn’t it?

Get over it and move on with your life. I think you have milked it for all it’s worth. Goodnight.

I think they blocked you because they were afraid of a confrontation with you about the information and what their friends said.