Comments on: Will I ever be able to trust him?

By: peaches

peaches — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 17:42:08 +0000

Sounds to me that you have already forgiven him more than once and he has decided that he can walk all over you. If he only wanted to flirt, then why can’t he with you? If you truly want to know what he is doing then I would set up a dummy email account and accidently email him and see wehre it goes. See if he tells the mystery woman that he is married. Good luck.

By: mr.ringler

mr.ringler — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 05:44:28 +0000

Dump him! Period. He will “NEVER” change. I guaranty it.

By: No Lies

No Lies — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 23:50:58 +0000

How can you forgive someone that has proven that they will be a repeat offender? You can trust this man about as far as you can throw him. There is someone else out there that would love, cherish and honor you the way you deserve. You are wasting your time with him and dragging out an inevitable and painful divorce.

By: NIKKI

NIKKI — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 19:52:11 +0000

Wow you have given him this many chances already, why continue the same routine over and over again? It is obviously never going to stop.

By: Reality Check

Reality Check — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 22:34:49 +0000

He has lied since the begining..and has a crying game going on….how can you stay in a relationship and be happy that way??? Let him go and move on…All this time he has been playing around behind your back…..slapping him??? Please he has cheated…she is probably tired of hiding and smacked him in frustration! ….Open your eyes.

By: g8grl77

g8grl77 — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:03:49 +0000

This is habitual cheating and he will not change…it is time for you to take a stand…definitely forgive but stop taking him back!!

By: my_shamayim

my_shamayim — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 13:57:08 +0000

I feel for you doll - you should not have to live life always worried if your husband is sneaking around on you. I don’t believe in divorce, but cheating is so disgusting to me that I hardly know what to say.

You do realize how likely it is that he has either already been unfaithful or will be, right?

All I would say is that, aside from sex, do y’all meet each other’s emotional needs well or do you feel like he is searching for another REAL person?

Good luck!

By: Amanda H

Amanda H — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 01:40:35 +0000

Well I would be upfront and tell him that you want a separation until he comes home. That gives you time to just think about yourself for now and do whats right for you. He will be over there and be dearly missing you. I would however occasionally send him care packages to make sure he has what he needs but he will also see how much he misses you. I am in a military relationship and this is how I would handle it if I were you. Email me if you need to. Good luck…

By: Tyler

Tyler — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 14:04:08 +0000

if he hasn’t changed by now with you confronting him multiple times with expicit material . . . no he will not change. And if you want to stop being hurt every so many months, I would get out of the relationship now!

By: Lil Mama

Lil Mama — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 23:03:06 +0000

Sweetie, he LIED TO YOU. Several times in fact, over and over. Now Im not saying that this wont change, bu tin the back of your mind youknow he is guilty and youknow that you do not deserve this treatment. If he has done this repeatedly and with the same woman it is not going to change. EVER. He will continue to do it because he knows every time he can get away with it with you. I suggest you leave him and only if he goes thru marriage counciling and proves that he is faithful do u stay, but personally from experience, he is going to cheat or lie again.