22Dec

Is it wise to keep an ex girlfriend on your social networking friends list? such as facebook? etc?

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I have dated about 3 women, 2 of which were devasted after we broke up and they keep stalking my profile and emailing me asking me to change it from “in a relationship” to single if i am really single, etc….I am afriad they might share the intimate moments we had with my friend..should i keep or delete them?

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8 Responses to “Is it wise to keep an ex girlfriend on your social networking friends list? such as facebook? etc?”

  1. Posted by hazzaman 22nd December, 2009 at 10:28 pm

    you should keep them, just cuz u guys broke up does not mean u guys stil can not be frds.
    she is probally jealous and just wants you back. she will get used to it someday.

  2. Posted by Anarchaholic ♥ 24th December, 2009 at 12:00 pm

    I was just going to say that if you broke up with them, and you guys don’t talk on a regular basis…delete them. It only gives them a chance to spy into your personal life and see who you’re next girlfriend is and then…who knows what they’d do.

    So if you’re not really friends with them, delete them. Your relationship is over so there is no point in leaving sad reminders on facebook.

    xoxoxo
    Drayven

  3. Posted by Jordan 25th December, 2009 at 8:55 pm

    Seriously you have to ask,delete them.

  4. Posted by AMC 28th December, 2009 at 4:38 am

    Delete them. You can’t be just friends with an ex and it will only cause drama. Sounds like it already is.

    Good luck

  5. Posted by Bola T 31st December, 2009 at 5:10 am

    Who invited who to the social network? If you are the one, then you called for it. If not you have choice to reject their invitation. It is not possible to bulge into your page without your invitation. If you invited them and realized they are going too far then you are free to delete them.

    But if you are still interested in one of them, you may keep her on and see whether the fear of another person taking you from her will bring her back to your life.

  6. Posted by Verve 1st January, 2010 at 12:50 am

    Just delete them. If you are really serious about the new girlfriend, focus on her and leave others in the past. It will make your life much less complicated and minimize the problems. Hopefully, the others will move on.

  7. Posted by porca0023 1st January, 2010 at 1:16 am

    First i think you need to make it known to them that the 2 of you aren’t together anymore, so they don’t have to worry about your “status” and personal life. If they respect you and want to be your friend still they will accept your asking.

    BUT if that doesnt work, then i think you should just delete them, they dont care about your feelings which is not a good friend. And if you have to be afraid that they will share things from your relationship with them, thats just messed up, and that holds the risk of stopping future relationships.

    Just no matter how this ends, with you guys as friends or foes…ex’s can always be friends.
    (I’m friends with several of my ex’s)

    I hope i helped and wish you luck for how it turns out.

  8. Posted by Adawiya 2nd January, 2010 at 3:35 pm

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