02Feb

Why did my friend ditch me?

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I have a best friend from college that i recently reconnected with. Come to find out, she had a cancerous tumor in her heart. She was successfully operated on, but then went into chemo for a while. We had been emailing back and forth about once a month. I sent her a care package at one pt. and she immed. sent me a long email and thank you. I remembered when her b/day was (about a month and a half after the first package) and sent her a book, a card, and a long, really nice email. Well, then I never heard anything back. Nothing. I waited a month and a half, and she sent a mass Merry Christmas email to everyone. A few days later I sent her a reply, wished her well, and asked if she ever received the present I sent her. No reply. Since I have sent her a few, funny Fwd. emails, and a picture of me drumming in concert. No replies. The last email I sent was about a month ago. Do you think I should try one more time?? What do you think is going on?

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3 Responses to “Why did my friend ditch me?”

  1. Posted by stargazingeyes1983 4th February, 2010 at 12:41 am

    i think you should keep trying she might be sick a real friend will not give up is there any other way you can get in touch with her?

  2. Posted by SadEyeS 4th February, 2010 at 12:43 am

    Do you have her phone number? You should perhaps try calling her or getting in touch with a member of her family to make sure that she is doing well. I had actually lost touch with a friend from highschool. We were inseperable all throughout highschool and college. We suddenly stopped talking and when we reconnected, things werent really the same. We would keep in touch, but not very frequently .. Hell, im still waiting on an email from her .. Ive sent 2 already … Sometimes when people move on .. We arent on thier priority lists anymore .. However in your case … You should definately call to make sure that your friend is okay.

  3. Posted by laurie888 6th February, 2010 at 8:01 pm

    Sounds depressed. Call her.

    Sounds like she’s going through a lot, could be depressed — also make sure you are supportive but not feeling sorry for her. Make sense?

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